The art of seduction

Is insinuating more than being direct. So charming them w what they might work better for them not being about your needs but that of the other. Ideas that could compliment and enchant them more than blatant advice sounding like mundane chores we more like inspire it through psychology more musical and romantic. I haven’t been practicing this form of art. I have been too straight up and it isn’t as enchanting. Always expressing my own needs and not taking the time to dive into the perspective and journey of another. Of course I want to know and I’m good at entertaining the possibilities I see for another. A pleasurable discussion between two human beings with loving words that bring each other up, showing you care, since you do. This is what is beautiful and the art of seduction. I feel like it’s feminine bc it’s softness and guiding without it being forceful. This is why ppl feel they have to guard and defend themselves the energy was not allowing and trusting them to take their path. As we improve oursleves we learn that getting ppl to do what we want has to look good for them in their eyes and feel like a wonderful idea, that’s why one would wana do it. This isn’t that hard to do but it’s difficult to remember when in either way we mean well. When what is communicated might mean the same but resonate so differently. Presented with allure or bluntly it’s really like reading a book by a different author or finding a guru who’s words melt your heart.